A Wildwood Crest man who claimed self-defense when he allegedly shot and killed his stepson during an argument in their home last month was ordered held in jail until trial. According to the Press of Atlantic City Carmine Neri, 63, is charged with murder, endangering the welfare of a child and possession of a weapon for an unlawful purpose in the death of Joseph Falciani, 41. Additionally, Neri was charged with witness tampering just days after his arrest when he allegedly called his wife, Sandra, from jail and asked her to change the statement she gave law enforcement about what she witnessed during the incident.